One in Ten of Black males who identifies as straight and engages in sexual relationships with women have also been sexually involved with men. According to the CDC's Young Men's Survey,
  • African American men who have sex with men, but who do not disclose their sexual orientation, have a high prevalence of HIV infection (14%); nearly three times higher than non-disclosing men who have sex with other men of all other races/ethnicities combined (5%).
  • HIV-infected nondisclosers were less likely to know their HIV status (98% were unaware of their infection compared with 75% of HIV-positive disclosers), and more likely to have had recent female sex partners.
  • More than 3 million women are, or have been wives or girlfriends of men who secretly have sex with other men

So what does this mean? It means that there are men out here hoodwinking females! I have NOTHING against gay males. In fact, I love them. However, I have no respect for those who pretend to be straight and endager themselves and the people around them. SO... ladies. How do you know if you're dealing with a downlow nigga? You can never be 100% sure, but there are ways to hone your gaydar. I have a fabulous gaydar, and I can point out a gay man (or female) faster than you can say "flaming". You can't always rely on things like style or clothes, because fashion has become a lot more abstract these days. Apart from niggas rolling their eyes, popping their necks, and chewing their gum like a ratchet named Keesha, here's ways to gauge a man for gay-ness. 

1. Homie Time- How much time does he spend with his boys? How does he act when he's around his boys? Male bonding is cool but when a man spends more time around his boys than his woman, it could be a potential red flag. Is he always texting/on the phone with a certain guy friend EVEN if he just got home from hooping with this nigga for 6 hours? Is he always talking about how he "hates bitches" in one tweet but his next tweet is "I love my niggas"? Nigga, what?  

2. Gay Bashing- Im used to niggas not liking being around gay men (like every gay man is gonna want their bitch asses), but what is a MAJOR red flag is a man who is extremely defensive of even being around/looking at/being near gay men. He talks about physically harming gay men without provocation. You know why? Gay men represent something in himself that he hates.

3. The OZ Syndrome-  Has this nigga spent large amounts of time in jail, prison, etc.? These types of environments are where men are exposed to the “Down Low” lifestyle and it seems regular to them. Does the idea of prison not frigten him? Does he brag about being in jail? Nigga, you might be flaming. 

4) He Brags About Being a Freak- No man should ever in his life talk about how freaky he is. Yes, sir, you can be a freak, but don't SAY you're a freak. "I'm down for anything, boo." Oh forreal? So you down for a dick in your ass? In a NY Times article about downlow men, a sexual performer was shadowed before he had sex with a man:  Jigga says he has sex with both men and women, but he doesn't label himself as bisexual. ''I'm just freaky,'' he says with a smile. Read that article here.

5) Popsicles - Does he eat popsicles? Yes? Nigga is gay. No debates. If he sticks a cylinder shaped popsicle in his mouth and sucks it, there is no way around it.

6) He Says Questionable Shit-  I saw a nigga tweet "Pussy is overrated." Nigga, YOU might be gay. Does he say things sometimes that leave you scratching your head? Ask him about that shit. Don't let it fly. He might have a legit reason for whatever he said, or he might lie through his teeth and start sweating. He could possibly be a homosexual. 

7) He Acts Catty About Females- Does he engage in drama and beef with females? Like, he argues with them, threatens them, or calls them out for being "pressed"? Watch out. You might be dealing with a butt pirate. 

8) Is He Vain?- Is he constantly taking selfies and posting them for the approval of others? Taking hella face pictures is a female activity. Sorry. Does he talk about how pretty or sexy he is? Is he completely serious when he says these things? Gay.  
 


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no name
12/20/2013 8:54pm

I really think the guy I was seeing is on the down low.....I had to go with my gut feeling from all the clues.....His voice would change from time to time he does take a lot of pics of himself....He was really into hair . He shaves his privates....but I knew he enjoyed other man when we were in the bed one day and we were looking at you tube looking for old movies asking each other have you seen this and that ...then he you tubed pumps in the bumps MC HAMMER if you watch this video you will see women with no tops half naked he turns and says to me look at that #!*@@s dick !!!! wtf my mouth dropped and I knew then at first i just thought because he had all sister he was just you know, picked up some women qualities I guess to many. So ladies turn on the video pumps and bumps and if he say look at his dick run ......

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02/10/2014 2:45pm

NCAA Baller Impregnates Gay Lover…with Septuplets? Yup! That's the Plot from Future Dramedy, BOYZ WILL BE BOYZ

Gay Filmmaker Seeks to Fund to Outrageous Debut
527,000+ YouTube Views Say "Boyz Will Be Boyz" is a Movie that You Want to See!

February 10, 2014 – New York, NY – After Tyrone–a “down-low” (closeted) bisexual rising NCAA basketball star–accidentally gets his heretofore unknowingly intersex boyfriend pregnant, he must contend with his scandalized conservative Christian mother, the near fatal disapproval of his fellow gang-bangers, his psychotically vindictive ex-girlfriend and the impending, catastrophically expensive—and potentially life-threatening–birth of…septuplets!

Yup! That's plot from the future feature film comedy/drama “Boyz Will Be Boyz” that over 527,000 YouTube views of the preview reel say is ripe for the making.

Press release: http://www.popularpublicity.com/2014/02/ncaa-baller-impregnates-gay-loverwith-septuplets.html

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GOD
03/08/2014 10:20pm

Here's one you missed. Niggas with tattoos of naked females on their backs. This is common for those who've been to prison and are engaged in homo anal sex on the receiving end.

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